I recently expanded my personal networking websites by adding a
Twitter AND a
Tumblr to my facebook and this blog... I think it was too much. But I really just can't stop. Now I can spend and extra two hours on the internet
"creeping" and
"tweeting" and
"blogging" and
"tumbling". As much as I hate to say it I think I'm addicted... Haha all of these websites are just so fabulous! But precaution must be taken. With facebook we get a clear look into the window of others lives. Of course this can cause MAJOR problems. People only post the good. Only allowing
tagged pictures that make them look their best, writing on the
wall's of people they hardly know pretending like they are just BFF'S! Tweeting what we do at every moment of everyday like someone cares(which sadly we are beginning to). Blogging about our personal lives and allowing people into our heads likes it wont affect us.
and yes, i am so guilty.
WHY in the world do we do this? As much as I so want to deactivate my facebook day in and day out I just can't bring myself to do it.
It's because we feel like we don't exist in the world if we don't exist on facebook. we think people(boys) will contact us via facebook and we'll miss it when honestly, how many times does this actually happen? The reality of it all is quite sad. Ridiculous really.
I want to go back in time. I want to go back to the days where men had to ride their horses to your house that was miles down the road if they wanted to see you. I want only my closest friends to know about my life and I want people to ask me IN PERSON to get lunch sometime.
Our world is becoming so technologically dependent and I'm not saying their aren't benefits, I'm just saying we need more balance. I'm determined to have my cake and eat it too. So we'll see...But in the mean time I'll keep facebooking, tweeting, tumbling, and blogging. Because everyone else is doing it, right?